Storytelling in the olden days was very important. This was how lessons learned were shared and legacy passed on. It was the Netflix of the old days. We can’t go around our thoughts/feelings, values and beliefs. In NLP coaching we often speak about the structure of memories and events . Often you’ll hear coaches say
It’s important that as a coach or coach to be to have the right attitude. With this, you provide a safe haven for the person you are conversing with. Before a coaching session, tap into your coach consciousness with these tips:
You can’t be human all by yourself What exactly is Ubuntu? You hear it more and more these days which is wonderful because there is so much wisdom that can and may be shared from the African continent. That’s really one of my missions and very tangible in my training.
Open hearts see love everywhere. If you don’t connect coaching with your heart, then in my opinion it is not sincere coaching. By connecting from the heart I mean that you are sincere, focused on the growth of the other, you hold the space and open for the other to be who they are. From
The only thing that keeps it part of your life is that you keep thinking about it. In NLP there is a beautiful way to questioning your thinking and get more insight into what is happening. It’s the Think-Feel-Do model. If there is a thought, there is also a feeling. And from there is behaviour.
The time is over that you have to get stuck in the negative spiral of thoughts and behaviour patterns. Are you aware of what keeps you in this loop? How powerful is it when you can start to give yourself feedback and advice that really works.