I recently facilitated a client’s family constellation where I asked her to donate the payment she was to give me to a project or person close to her heart
She was surprised
‘Huh?’ I said yes, please donate the full amount with love to a project or person that you love.
At the beginning of
I recently started seeing a coach again. As a trainer and coach working with people in different ways, I feel it’s a must to commit myself to lifelong learning.
A lot of times, I choose a coach out of shame. Shame I didn’t have enough clients or I wasn’t good enough. Shame I was still
I want to make it easier for you to use NLP jargon in your daily life
The first concept is rapport, which sits at the heart of NLP
Rapport is the French word for making contact. It goes deeper than only contact. It’s more than just saying hello and having a conversation. It can be a
Human behaviour is intriguing and sometimes complex to understand.
Bjork, one of my favourite artists in the world has a beautiful song called Human Behaviour.
She sings:
If you ever get close to a human and human behaviour
Be ready, be ready to get confused and me and my hereafter
Getting more understanding and clarity
As trainers, we love coaching and bringing you further on your path. It’s important to us that you make the right choice.
Looking to be trained as a coach? here are 8 tips to consider:
1. Get to know the trainer personally
Find out more about the trainer. See if there’s content available on social
Systemic work is a way of seeing. To see with your heart and soul what your eyes cannot perceive.
A constellation is about looking at and seeing what’s going on in a system. You’re linked to your (biological) family system. They reveal invisible patterns. It may be a question from within about yourself, your family
Do you get irritated when experience certain behaviours and patterns in someone?
From a coaching perspective, we have the responsibility to create awareness in our coachee. Before someone can break through a pattern, awareness around what is happening is important.
Most of our behaviour happens unconsciously. We act and do, often not aware of what
At the beginning of last year, my trainer and mentor Peter Dalmeijer asked me if I would like to write a review for his book, 10 steps in systemic coaching, that he wrote together with his partner Yvonne Stams.
My heart jumped with joy! At first I didn’t believe he asked me to write a
It’s important as a coach or coach to be to have the right attitude
With this, you provide a safe haven for the person you are conversing with
Here are 5 ways to tap into your coach consciousness before a session:
In NLP there is a beautiful way to question your thinking and get more insight into what is happening in you
It’s the Think-Feel-Do model. If there’s a thought, its followed by a feeling. And from there, behaviour. A lot of times you’re only aware of a thought or feeling without knowing the root cause.