16 Nov

Green Friday, Green Love

I recently facilitated a client’s family constellation where I asked her to donate the payment she was to give me to a project or person close to her heart She was surprised ‘Huh?’ I said yes, please donate the full amount with love to a project or person that you love. At the beginning of

01 Mar

4 steps to improve your rapport with people – an essential ingredient in NLP coaching

By Brenda
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I want to make it easier for you to use NLP jargon in your daily life The first concept is rapport, which sits at the heart of NLP Rapport is the French word for making contact. It goes deeper than only contact. It’s more than just saying hello and having a conversation. It can be a

15 Dec

6 steps to exploring your mind and how it affects your behaviour

By Brenda
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Human behaviour is intriguing and sometimes complex to understand. Bjork, one of my favourite artists in the world has a beautiful song called Human Behaviour. She sings: If you ever get close to a human and human behaviour Be ready, be ready to get confused and me and my hereafter Getting more understanding and clarity

06 Dec

What is systemic work?

By Brenda
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Systemic work is a way of seeing. To see with your heart and soul what your eyes cannot perceive. A constellation is about looking at and seeing what’s going on in a system. You’re linked to your (biological) family system. They reveal invisible patterns. It may be a question from within about yourself, your family

11 Nov

Zooming in and out in coaching

By Brenda
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At the beginning of last year, my trainer and mentor Peter Dalmeijer asked me if I would like to write a review for his book, 10 steps in systemic coaching, that he wrote together with his partner Yvonne Stams. My heart jumped with joy! At first I didn’t believe he asked me to write a

27 Jul

5 ways to tap into your coach consciousness

By Brenda
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It’s important as a coach or coach to be to have the right attitude With this, you provide a safe haven for the person you are conversing with Here are 5 ways to tap into your coach consciousness before a session:

01 Jul

3 ways to tune into your heart and intuition

Look at a picture of yourself as a child. What do you see in her/his eyes? Look beyond what you see. What is not seen or said. Write down who you are e.g. daughter, son, friend, parent, colleague, creative, etc… you’ll discover the list is infinitely more than what you can think of and write

18 Jun

The P in NLP – Programming

By Brenda
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In NLP there is a beautiful way to question your thinking and get more insight into what is happening in you It’s the Think-Feel-Do model. If there’s a thought, its followed by a feeling. And from there, behaviour. A lot of times you’re only aware of a thought or feeling without knowing the root cause.

21 May

You are the power – Decide

By Brenda
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The time is over for you to get stuck in the negative spiral of thoughts and behaviour patterns. Are you aware of what keeps you in this loop? Start to giving yourself feedback and advice that really works, you are the power – Decide today

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