As trainers, we love coaching and bringing you further on your path. It’s important to us that you make the right choice. Looking to be trained as a coach? here are 8 tips to consider: 1. Get to know the trainer personally Find out more about the trainer. See if there’s content available on social
Systemic work is a way of seeing. To see with your heart and soul what your eyes cannot perceive. A constellation is about looking at and seeing what’s going on in a system. You’re linked to your (biological) family system. They reveal invisible patterns. It may be a question from within about yourself, your family
Do you get irritated when experience certain behaviours and patterns in someone? From a coaching perspective, we have the responsibility to create awareness in our coachee. Before someone can break through a pattern, awareness around what is happening is important. Most of our behaviour happens unconsciously. We act and do, often not aware of what
At the beginning of last year, my trainer and mentor Peter Dalmeijer asked me if I would like to write a review for his book, 10 steps in systemic coaching, that he wrote together with his partner Yvonne Stams. My heart jumped with joy! At first I didn’t believe he asked me to write a
Storytelling in the olden days was very important. This was how lessons learned were shared and legacy passed on. It was the Netflix of the old days. We can’t go around our thoughts/feelings, values and beliefs. In NLP coaching we often speak about the structure of memories and events . Often you’ll hear coaches say
It’s important that as a coach or coach to be to have the right attitude. With this, you provide a safe haven for the person you are conversing with. Before a coaching session, tap into your coach consciousness with these tips:
The only thing that keeps it part of your life is that you keep thinking about it. In NLP there is a beautiful way to questioning your thinking and get more insight into what is happening. It’s the Think-Feel-Do model. If there is a thought, there is also a feeling. And from there is behaviour.
The time is over that you have to get stuck in the negative spiral of thoughts and behaviour patterns. Are you aware of what keeps you in this loop? How powerful is it when you can start to give yourself feedback and advice that really works.